GREEN GRASS, GREENER GRASS - Olabisi David

The grass always looks greener at the other side.
You see a man well-dressed and you just wish he was your man instead of the person you're dating. You forget he probably wasn't that cute or well-dressed some years back.
You see a spirikoko sister who prays for 22 hours daily and you suddenly remember your partner is not prayerful enough.
You see a surprise birthday party a wife organised for her husband and you feel so 'unlucky' to have married someone who can't even think of such.
You see a couple always doing lovey lovey and theirs seem to be a perfect home and you wallow in regret about how you and partner never seem to enjoy yourselves.
You see your friends going to Dubai for honeymoon while you had to stay indoor throughout because you had no money to spend and you feel "unfortunate".
Hey dear, the grass always looks greener on the other side. No one loves to wash their dirty underwear in public, you won't hear the negative stories so often.
Love,courtship,marriage is a process, walk through it with patience, understanding and teachable heart and you both will come out better together. Be ready to learn and improve.
Yes, the grass may be truly greener on the other side but that's because someone is watering it. The greener grass you see today is the effort of two people in their relationship. Invest in yours and stop wishing away. What God has given you is the very best. Hold on to it and cherish it!!!
Love,courtship,marriage is a process, walk through it with patience, understanding and teachable heart and you both will come out better together. Be ready to learn and improve.
Yes, the grass may be truly greener on the other side but that's because someone is watering it. The greener grass you see today is the effort of two people in their relationship. Invest in yours and stop wishing away. What God has given you is the very best. Hold on to it and cherish it!!!
Olabisi David
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