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NOT PATIENT? DON'T MARRY pt3

Friday, May 18, 2018
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Written by Damilare Mike David (Mr REGEN)

MALE EGO: Relating Anger to Male Ego.
Ego only exists because we think it's natural for men, when we shouldn't take pride in it. This is because ego is a moral weakness. Ego indicates pride, while pride is one of the fruits of the flesh.

Biblically, Ego is a sin, (because every act of ego will involve slightest insincerity & selfishness)
*WAYS:*
*When you offend your wife but you can not apologize.
James 4:17 Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

* When you conclude her opinion can never count.

*When you feel a man is justified under an act, but an abomination to a woman (eg; When we feel women should be more sexually self controlled than men). We forget that there is no separate heaven or hell for each gender. We'll be judged alike

Duet 24:16, Ezekiel 18:20
*When we feel a man can get angry & react, but a woman shouldn't, because ego is natural to man.
Corinthians 2:14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God......
.... the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man;....1 Corinthians 11:3

*We only want to be the head but not headed (by Christ). If we are headed by Christ, do we follow is headship pattern?

*Do we treat our wives the way Jesus treats us?

*We are so secured in God, are our wives secured in us or scared of us?

*God sacrificed His son for us, what & how far can you sacrifice for her? (as little as coming home early, sacking that side chick/babe, stop visiting that beer parlour, etc)
Headship is not by deep scary tone, hard punch, active manhood, or by strong controlling ego. It is by being mentored by Christ in the school of headship and follow suit.
Anger is not justifiable for any reason, not even as the head of the house, not even under the act of male ego.

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