A LETTER ON MARRIAGE
"Dear Rori,
I got your book the other day. I could not believe what I read. You were describing me to a Tee! Let me elaborate just a bit. I was married 20 years. The last 5 years, I knew something was wrong. I knew he was unhappy and was pulling away from me, but I did not know how to rectify the situation. I did exactly what you said not to do. And, of course, he had an affair (or two). I was devastated... completely wiped out.
Fast forward 3 years. I have been dating a wonderful man for about a year, and we are ready to step it up a bit as far as commitment goes, but there has been something wrong. Little by little, I see the behaviors in me that I had in my marriage.
It came to a head Friday. He had taken the day off to clean his house top to bottom and prepare a wonderful meal for me (even a pie!) I was in such a controlling mode that I would not let him cook it. Finally after hinting and saying he wanted me to sit down and relax, he wanted to do something for me...he said I was "controlling." This is exactly what my ex called me. Of course, I cry, we move on.. But it was there...
Then Monday I got your book... sooo excited that I finally get it! For 2 days, I have been doing everything you have said to do. Only 2 days. Today, he text messaged me twice and e-mailed saying he is miserable today missing me and wants to take me to the best French restaurant in town... and he is taking the afternoon off to fix my hot tub!
I can really feel a wonderful change coming in my life. I will keep you posted on what happens. Thank you from the bottom of my heart."
And Here's Sharon's Follow-Up (Within A Week!)
"Rori, I just had to share with you the e-mail I got today. sigh
I know deep in my heart that I am really on to something very powerful that has been such a hindrance in my life. I am so excited to see the great results just so far, and I can't wait to see what the future holds. Here is the e-mail I got today from my boyfriend:
'Good morning to the greatest ever. Last night and this morning were out of this world. You felt wonderful. I feel so into you, so in love with you. I hate to leave you but it's only for a day. I can't wait to get back home and be with you. Have a great day and know that I am thinking of you every minute. Going to leave in a few minutes. I love you sooooooo much. Carl'
Rori, Have a wonderful day... You have certainly contributed to making my days a lot happier! Sincerely, Sharon, Texas"
I got your book the other day. I could not believe what I read. You were describing me to a Tee! Let me elaborate just a bit. I was married 20 years. The last 5 years, I knew something was wrong. I knew he was unhappy and was pulling away from me, but I did not know how to rectify the situation. I did exactly what you said not to do. And, of course, he had an affair (or two). I was devastated... completely wiped out.
Fast forward 3 years. I have been dating a wonderful man for about a year, and we are ready to step it up a bit as far as commitment goes, but there has been something wrong. Little by little, I see the behaviors in me that I had in my marriage.
It came to a head Friday. He had taken the day off to clean his house top to bottom and prepare a wonderful meal for me (even a pie!) I was in such a controlling mode that I would not let him cook it. Finally after hinting and saying he wanted me to sit down and relax, he wanted to do something for me...he said I was "controlling." This is exactly what my ex called me. Of course, I cry, we move on.. But it was there...
Then Monday I got your book... sooo excited that I finally get it! For 2 days, I have been doing everything you have said to do. Only 2 days. Today, he text messaged me twice and e-mailed saying he is miserable today missing me and wants to take me to the best French restaurant in town... and he is taking the afternoon off to fix my hot tub!
I can really feel a wonderful change coming in my life. I will keep you posted on what happens. Thank you from the bottom of my heart."
And Here's Sharon's Follow-Up (Within A Week!)
"Rori, I just had to share with you the e-mail I got today. sigh
I know deep in my heart that I am really on to something very powerful that has been such a hindrance in my life. I am so excited to see the great results just so far, and I can't wait to see what the future holds. Here is the e-mail I got today from my boyfriend:
'Good morning to the greatest ever. Last night and this morning were out of this world. You felt wonderful. I feel so into you, so in love with you. I hate to leave you but it's only for a day. I can't wait to get back home and be with you. Have a great day and know that I am thinking of you every minute. Going to leave in a few minutes. I love you sooooooo much. Carl'
Rori, Have a wonderful day... You have certainly contributed to making my days a lot happier! Sincerely, Sharon, Texas"
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