ERRONEOUS WAY TO LOVE - Ultimate Part

 ......... And that was how Mary lost at both ends after trading her second chance for uncertainty & vague feelings. 

What has she gotten herself into, what a total loss at the end, where would she start from? 

Many of us are symbolical to the basic 4 characters in these story....As much as you enjoyed it, let's learn from them all the characters; (Mary, Mariam, Emmanuel, Samuel)

*LEARNING FROM MARY*

This story doesn't present anyone as the best, as everyone was wrong at a point.

*EMOTION IS NOT YOU, JUST A LITTLE PART OF YOU*. 

There are so many things God has combined to make man, and emotion is just a slight percentage, why should it drive a whole you, why should it determine a whole destiny of you? 

.... MARY allowed herself to be driven by a sleeping emotion which had hurt in the past, which was built on youthful exuberance and untamed burning passion. You should determine when emotion calls.

*"FIRST LOVE" doesn't mean "MEANT LOVE", "FIRST LOVER" isn't "BEST LOVER"*

He who once had the key to your sexuality _(but is not your husband or wife)_, run far from that person, because he may be able to open the door again and again. He knows your weaknesses and could always get you with them. 

_That was Mary's error for allowing Emmanuel back into her life_

*DON'T JUST STOP THE SEX, STOP THE RELATIONSHIP*.

 When you are in a wrong relationship _(especially the one what involved premarital sex / fornication)_ and you realized what you are doing is wrong, you can't successfully stop the sexual act and continue with the relationship. The passion you both shared needs to die. It would keep visiting your body, mounting pressure on your emotion and compelling your spirit to fall back into that sin..

_(For you to have a clear communication with God for the right future partner, you need to get rid of the old clogging obstacle)_

*The thing to do is*, 

..... break that relationship _(the main access to fornication),_

..... both of you should go back to God in repentance,

..... give time to heal emotionally and spiritually.

Unfortunately, our singles think they can continue to overcome sin in a close circle of sin. NO, you have to break away from the shell, you have to leave first.

.... Many would stick to that relationship & silently struggle with the burning passion of fornication, but would eventually fall. 

Some would quit the relationship and jump into another, just as Mary did.

.... Every sin you are trying to be free from doesn't leave far away immediately, it stays by _(those are the times you find it difficult to cope without doing those things you were used to, when you feel like visiting that old boyfriend or girlfriend, feel like going to a private place and Masturbate, when you feel like taking just a half bottle of beer instead of  2 bottles, etc)_

..... After a long time of consistent victory over that sin, The spirit behind such sin goes away, but not permanent. _(Those are the times you feel you are now a spiritual champion,  carelessly assuming that you are immune to certain classes of sin)_

...... The spirit behind that sin decides to visit his old home after a while, _(when you have forgotten, when you have stopped praying about victory over that sin, when only what you do is castigated others)_. The spirit returns with demons 7 times stronger. If the person falls, it would be worse than his former.

...... *That's why YOU CAN'T LEAVE IN A VACUUM.*

You are either for Jesus or devil.

If you have decided to repent and go back to God, you must be filled with *His word & Spirit.* Else, one would eventually fall worse than former.

Mary lost virginity at first, but lost her dignity and a good man (Samuel) the second time.

Were you or are you like Mary and you want to judiciously make use of another chance you have now _(that chance is very limited in availability)?_ 

Repeat these word then, call/text the number that follows. 

*"Dear Jesus, I have realized my wrong, I was told you can give me another chance & a brand new life, yes I believe..... Pls avail me & save me. I promise to obey you now and always. In Jesus name I have prayed.*

Call or text 08034904282 for further counselling.....

*Damilare Mike David* (Mr REGEN)