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EQUITY OR EQUALITY SHIFT Pt2 - {for men}

Friday, May 18, 2018
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Written by Damilare Mike David (Mr REGEN)

As much as a husband is the head of his wife, yet no man heads independently.....
The  man is also headed by God and its expedient that every husband heads his wife according to God's dictation: 1Cor 11:13

1. God dictates that every husband should head his wife in love....
Eph 5:25
Authority is not to selfishly have your way or to
make her fear you. Authority is to instruct / compel her on what is positive for her  and advantageous for your home, when she doesn't see or know your good intention. If there must be a time to ever force her into anything, it should be to her (direct or indirect) benefit, sooner or later

2.  God dictates that every man should head his wife to God's glory. 1Tim 3:5
Man has higher influence on women & children. It's possible for a man to compel his wife & children to serve God, than for a woman to compel a man. A man can easily force his household to pray, read bible & go to church, than for a woman to force a man.....

That is the path God expects you to use the authority He gave you. To aid the spiritual growth of your wife  and household in all.

Unfortunately, many husbands authorize their wives against God who gave them the authority. They want their will ahead God's. Such men are at the verge of loosing their authority or headship.

3.  God dictates that every man should head his woman for security.
The feeling a woman should get being under you is safety, that she has a strong one above her who ensures her security:

-Physically; not abusing her with physical strength
(... husband, don't be hash to your wife. _Col 3:19)

-Responsibly; that she can get all she needs (not wants)... 1 Cor 5:8

-Maritally; the feeling of having a crown over her head, the respect for being a wife, the joy of being married.

Do you head / authorize your wife in these ways God crave, is it selfishly or abusively?
The earlier you change, the better & lasting your headship and authority.

May God bless and help you.


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